Sunday, December 19, 2021

Happy 29th Anniversary to us!

 29 years?  Wow that is a long time.  And yet,  I can remember details of that day like it was yesterday. 

It hasn't always been easy.  But it has been worth it.  I mean what do you expect when you put a type A with a type z (the farthest from a you can get)?

At our anniversary dinner we sat and talked and talked.  We talked about the ways we are different.  The ways we are the same.  What we would tell our young selves if we could go back.  What we regret most.  What we are most proud of.  What has surprised us the most.  During this discussion we laughed and cried (well I cried) and both agreed we would it all over again in a heartbeat.  


The Big Day - December 19th 1992

We had a lot more hair then but we have a lot more love now!     

                                        

From this....

December 1992

                                   


To this...

August 2021

                                         



We started our anniversary celebration last month in Chicago.  



We enjoyed the Christkindl Market.  It was our first time and we definitely want to go back 

We love Christmas and the lights so the Lighting Parade on Michigan Avenue was amazing for us!

A yummy dessert to share after the parade

More lights

This weekend we celebrated with dinner out, a nice warm fire and games by the light of the fire and Christmas tree.  



Our lame attempt at a selfie after dinner. 

Mastermind 


A nice warm fire

                                                   





Here is to the upcoming years and all they will bring!  








Sunday, December 12, 2021

Favorite Tradition: The Nativity

 Today we participated in one of my favorite family traditions - the reading of the story of Jesus' birth from Luke and the putting up of the Nativity.  Everyone was here this afternoon to participate and it made my heart happy to have us all together.


Brian reads the story of Jesus' birth from Luke as we all listen.  

                                                


Then we set up our Nativity set.  This set is special to us because my Mamaw and Papaw Wellman gave it to us in the early years of our marriage.  


This year, Brian gave the kids each an early Christmas present.  He bought them each a new Bible.  He also wrote them a letter explaining how he came to know Christ and how it has changed his life.  In addition he gave each of them a handwritten letter and tucked it into their Bibles.  Such a special gift.  
Jake, Brian, Lizzie and Zach




Absolutely love this bunch of "kids."

Jake, Lizzie, Josie and Zach



I will enjoy this tradition as long as I can.  We are blessed that everyone lives close enough that we can continue this.  But we know the day may come when we are spread out.  Until then.... we continue with this tradition.  After that?  We will find new ways to make new memories and traditions.  






Saturday, December 11, 2021

It Is Beginning To Look a Lot Like Christmas

 Slowly but surely we are getting everything ready for Christmas.  Two of our trees are up.  Tomorrow we will continue our family tradition of putting up the Nativity together while reading about the birth of Christ from Luke.  I love shutting the lights off, curling up on the couch and watching a cheesy predictable Hallmark movie under the twinking of the Christmas lights.  It truly is my happy place.  


Our kitten, Cali, loves warming herself by the glow of the fire as well.
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care.

Our main tree in the living room.  We have fewer decorations this year thanks to our new kitten.  I did not want to risk her knocking over the tree and breaking some irreplacable ornaments - specifically the ones my Mamaw Wellman painted for us.  

Brian collects Santas and a few years ago we added a "Santa Tree" to the office  It is full of Santa ornaments.  


More pictures to come. 

Sunday, December 5, 2021

Six Years Later. . .

 Six years later and we are still here.  A lot has changed but we are hanging on and loving life at the Paragi house.  





So... what has been happening? 


 TIS Bookstore closed and Brian changed careers after 24 years doing what he loved.  After a stint traveling and selling sportwear, he decided it wasn't for him.  Brian stepped out in faith and was transparent with his men's Bible study.  He shared that he was feeling down and was looking for a job. Someone in group reached out to him and the next thing you know Brian is starting his new career as a  at Prudential.  He passed the required licensing test pretty quickly and  passed "the big one" the following year.  He is now a Financial Advisor.   It took some time, but he now feels like this is his new work home and is comfortable there.  


Philisha has come full circle.  She was a reading interventionist for 13 years.  Last year, she went back to special education.  Due to COVID and her auto immune disorder, she was a remote only teacher last year for students K-5 with special needs.  It was a crazy year, but she learned a lot and made it through.  This year, she is a special education teacher as a cross cat teacher.  She is enjoying the challenge and is learning something new everyday.   Over the last six  years, Philisha's MS has been active.  She had one true relapse that resulted in her changing disease modifying meds.  She now takes Ocrevus which is an all day infusion twice a year.  It seems to be working and she loves only having to deal with it two times a year. 


Zach is now a branch manager at First Financial Bank in Mahomet.  That isn't the big news though... he has found the one he wants to spend his life with and is now engaged!!  He and Josie are planning a wedding for next fall.  Over the last year, they also bought a house and completely updated it.  It is an adorable house with a barn which houses their two pygmie goats.  They also purchased a camper that they keep at Coho Bend in Michigan where they camp and fish.  Oh... and they have added two cats to their household as well.  


Zach invited us and all of Josie's family to be there when he proposed.  Such a special day!
She was surprised and said YES!
The cakes say "He asked..."  "She said yes!"




One of the pygmie goats.  

Engagement pics
So sweet









Jake is attending college with dreams of becoming a social worker.  From the outside looking in, we are excited as it seems like a perfect fit for his personality and skill set.  He is also working as an assistant manager at a local coffee shop - Yo-Yo's. He enjoys it and is doing great there.  He likes to remind us frequently that is is taking a full course load and working full time.  Just in case we forgot how hard he is working - ha! 

Ready for poker night. 

    That smile is contagious. 

Lizzie is a junior this year.  She recently received her 2nd academic letter.  She is in her 4th year of 4H and each year she has earned a trip to state fair in at least one of her projects.  Lizzie is excitedly looking forward to a trip to Ecuador this summer with school.  She has been working hard babysitting and doing other odd jobs to make money for the trip.

Earning her 2nd Academic Letter. 

Homecoming dance - juior year. 


This past year has been a year of fun and trips.  Zach and Josie traveled to Tennessee where they zip-lined, rode horses, and enjoyed the beauty of the area.  They also enjoyed a few trips to Michigan where they had some down time and caught some big fish.

Jake went to Lalapalooza this past summer.  While mom spent most of the time worrying about him, he had a great time, saw some of his favorite artists and was safe.  He went back to Chicago for a comedy show and then traveled to Mizzou a few times to visit friends.


Brian, Philisha and Lizzie joined Darrell and Karen on a trip out west.  They visited the Badlands, Mount Rushmore, Blackhills, and all the fun things in between.  

Brian, Lizzie and Philisha at the Badlands. 

It was so cool. 

Devil's Tower in Wyoming. 

Brian and Philisha borrowed Zach and Josie's camper over the 4th of July and visited Sue and Jim in Michigan.  Watching the fireworks over Lake Michigan was awesome.  




The boats on Lake Michigan ready for the show. 
Such a fun show.  Part of the excitement was just getting to be out and around people again.